"I wouldn't be letting him fall asleep with a soother if I were you. That creates bad habits." "You should give her a soother so he'll sleep better. It's the only way my baby slept well." "Have you had this (fill in the blank) checked out?" "Why isn't your baby eating solids yet?" "You shouldn't… Continue reading Handling Advice, Comparison and Criticism As A New (or not so new) Mama.